So fortunate to had made a ‘Winchendon’ stop during the sixth week of our eight week cross country motorcycle adventure. For it was then that we were able to visit Carol, our sister-in-law, though ALWAYS considered our ‘sister’. Diagnosed with cancer in April of 2016, Carol was a mere 85 pounds when we made our three day stop. Glad that we had the opportunity to talk, laugh a bit and enjoy a Saturday afternoon family gathering.
Notice Karen in the bottom right |
Leaving Sunday morning the 11th of June, Carol decided that she needed to go to the emergency room. We assisted her to the car, Karen whispered to her ear that she'd see her in August and we began our return journey to the West coast.
Then the 18th of June happened, Father's Day. While slowing to stop at the Chamberlain, SD rest stop, where stands an incredible statute honoring Pocahontas, we received a call telling us that Carol had just died. The next twenty-four hours were filled with tons of emotion, I know not just us, but so many that were connected to Carol’s life.
Though I know that there had been many prayers for Carol and the family (especially her three adult daughters), prior to her death, it was those afterwards that seem to hold even greater purpose. That is the prayer to sustain those who remain, again especially her daughters.
It is here where two prayers stand out above the rest. Packed, ready to depart our traveling partners one more time (as we would begin an expedited trip home), a fellow camper from our ‘Camp Welikeit' campground in the Black Hills of South Dakota approached. We shared then, as we would several times during our return to Silverton, why we were shortening our adventure. It was then that Shayla asked if she could pray for us. A short, but beautiful and heartfelt prayer ensued.
A mere two days later we found ourselves in Yak Yak’s. No, that is not a miss-spelling! Always on the search for a ‘Mom and Pop’s diner, we found it in Yak Yak’s. I determined that it was either an oriental restaurant or someone just having fun. It was the later.
While enjoying a good meal a tour bus arrived out front with forty some folks from a Catholic church in St. Louis, Missouri on a Pacific Northwest tour which included lunch at Yak Yak's. Having two available seats we invited a couple from the group to join us. The conversation that followed had the four of us enjoying the journey and adventure of each. Ours of course included the reason for our shortened trip. As with Shayla in the Black Hills, these sixty something ladies said that they would offer prayers, along with their group and priest later that day in their mass.
So I sit here this morning, the day in which our eight week cross country, ‘Newport Triangle’ trip concludes in Newport, Oregon. At 1am this morning, Friday June 30th we returned from our interlude to celebrate the life of Carol Pace and to be surrounded by family.
Often I’ve enjoyed a prayer to someone I've met for the first time. To have that be reciprocated twice in a brief couple of days … well that is truly “priceless”.
View...during our expedited journey home |
The moral of this blog … thank you Shayla and thank you St. Louis Catholics. Might each of us daily listen to the stories of the other and offer a spontaneous prayers of hope, of encouragement, of strength to sustain one another.