Tuesday, August 6, 2019

Diafonophobia


Ok, agoraphobia…this makes sense to me. I actually witnessed it in a family member years ago, when she experienced a great sense of helplessness regarding life itself and would no longer travel because of it. As well, one day a buddy was underneath my house for a plumbing project for less than five minutes and only feet from the entry when claustrophobia caused his immediate retreat.

And I may even place one onto myself. Yet, if asked, I'm pretty sure that it may well be toward the top of most in regards to phobias. It is called ‘ophidiophobia'. Yeah right, you're making up this word. No, actually it is the fear of snakes. Most will even run from the common garden snake. And I must admit, I’ve stepped back quickly a time or two when found in my yard. But, I've also been the hero a couple of times when rescuing my neighborhood children, and even their mom 😁

As well, you can turn to, what else, but to 'phobia list dot com', to see hundreds of phobias which have been analyzed over the years.

Yet, all of these are overshadowed by the newest, most trendy fear of all, that is “Diafonophobia”. And yes, I just coined the word myself. I even did the almighty ‘Google' search. And the results returned an emphatic, “Your search – Diafonophobia – did not match any documents”. So seriously Rick, what the heck are you saying?

Again, using ‘Google' as our search engine we see that the term “homophobic/homophobia” was first used in 1969. And though “transphobia” tends to be a more recent term, it actually surfaced in 1992.

Today, our culture, the media, constantly bombard us as having one or both of these fears. When in fact, the problem lies within themselves and “diafonophobia”. They have a fear of disagreement!  It is a two-part Greek word, διαφωνεί and φόβος. Most, coming from my position … or as the new termed used, “Talking Point”, are not afraid of homosexual or transsexual people. Seriously, am I afraid of these folks? Perhaps you should do some research. You would find that I along with a great majority who have the perspective in which I hold are not afraid of either one of the above two groups. Rather the fear lies on their behalf. They are ‘afraid’ that we “disagree” with them.

Our Founders quickly recognized the need to add to our great constitution. And with it came the ‘Bill of Right’s’. The VERY first one … is that of the freedom of speech. Such wisdom which allows us to say, to think … as we so choose. Yes, as a follower of Christ, I firmly believe that our speech should always be with grace and seasoned with salt. Salt, providing a great means, in order to savor our disagreements.


Note: This blog was in regards to the use/misuse of terms. I realize that harm and violence has occurred within people of homosexual persuasion, and some of this from professing Christians. I 100% "disagree" with those committing such. That said, just because I disagree with those who cause harm, it does not place me into a category of "fear", no more than you are afraid of me. So, might we have honest discussion, even knowing that often we will "disagree".

Saturday, May 25, 2019

There's Not A Day...

The crew in 1968
This phrase is used often in our lives, but the accuracy of it could well be questioned. That said, though not meant to indicate every single day, still the idea is that often we remember. And that is the truth in regards to how frequently I’m reminded of my mother.

Mom's HS Grad
I was thirty years old, when my mother, but forty-seven, died of cancer. Now thirty years later, at sixty years of age, the memory of this great lady has yet to fade. Always on the anniversary of her birthday, April Fools Day, and that of her death, these are times when she is forefront in my thoughts. Then scattered throughout the year are a picture, a story, a fragrance or a song … especially The Big Bopper’s ‘Chantilly Lace’, or anything with Elvis, that brings Elizabeth Ann Jopp to mind.

There are many things that I believe that she would have loved to be part of. Seeing what her children have done with their lives. And likewise the lives of her grand and great-grandchildren. To have had continued relationship with Karen and the spouses of her other children. These are but a few of the ways in which she would have continued to connect and make an impact in the lives of others. And...what would have been her new hobbies? How many graduations and weddings would she have attended? How would our relationship have grown over the years? So many questions, forever unanswered.

It’s hard to even imagine that today, the 25th of May, is actually thirty years from the moment of her last breath. On Memorial Day myself, along with other motorcycle buddies, will venture across the Willamette Valley in honor of our fallen loved ones. Though I’m calling it the ‘Jeffer Memorial Day Ride’, in honor of a fallen motorcyclist friend, mom will most definitely be one that I remember as we pay our respects at a couple cemeteries along the way.

My hope is that for you as well, that there is not a day, that a smile is shinning upon your face as something reminds you of one that you once loved dearly.






Elvis and daughter...what a combo! "Take my hand, let me stand, where no one stands alone". What a beautiful thing it is when we able to stand side by side with those we love...and not be alone. 

What lovely family pictures and films are shown in this video. Similar old 8 and 16mm home movies were enjoyed by many of us in the 60's. And though I imagine that Lisa Marie would have loved a different ending, don't we all have that opportunity to make better on the memories that we leave behind.

And to know that one day we can go to the 'Great Known', known in the sense that there is a place that has been prepared for us, where 'The King' ... Jesus, will take us ... to His Father's house. Oh glorious day! John chapter 14...

I was just about to post this when I came across the video below. What an absolute favorite was Tim Conway, who died earlier this month, and what a tribute to him in this video. "Of all the gifts you gave me, your friendship was the best. And I'll always keep you in my heart". Amen...Amen!


Thank you JB Furr for your contribution

Tuesday, April 2, 2019

A Timothy Pursuit...Why We Do What We Do?

The page sat blank for what seemed like an hour as I reflected on ‘what experience (s) … event (s) changed my life?’ While I was thinking I began a search to see what others had written online. As well, I tried to think of movies or books that I’ve seen or read.

 Perhaps I have no greater experience than that of living this life because of a woman who dug in her heals and made life work…work for me and my three siblings. What she did, how she gave has and will forever change my path of life and living. 

As I continued pondering and thought of my own career, one of service. In part ... due to what I believe is a gift of God…which is service. But as my mind wandered I remembered the day driving with dad down Soledad Canyon Highway when we became the first upon a most horrible of accidents. There was a pickup truck with a canopy and several children inside who were a couple miles from their destination of Magic Mountain, the amusement park. A semi-truck had not seen them stopped at a traffic light and plowed into them. I was thirteen; they were seven and eight year olds and would be in their early fifties today. I don’t think of that day often, but today as I recalled that event I realized once again just how much that very moment changed my life.

The above thoughts are a result of reading through chapter sixteen of the book of Acts. Talking about the apostle Paul, Luke writes, “And he came also to Derbe and to Lystra. And behold, a certain disciple was there, named Timothy”. The passage continues to tell of Timothy’s upbringing, and how he would join Paul through many futures adventures and missions.

He who never walked, began to walk!
As I read this passage I couldn’t help but wonder if Timothy had been mentioned prior to this moment? Or, had Paul previously been to this area? We only have to go back two chapters, approximately five years of time and we see that Paul had fled a stoning in the town of Iconium and wound up in Lystra. It is here that Paul happens upon a “certain man” who had been lame since birth, never having walked. And I ask, ‘Did Timothy know this man’? As Paul was teaching, the man was listening. And I ask, ‘Was Timothy listening as well’? Paul then gazes upon the man and sees that he has faith to be made well. Paul then says, “STAND up on your feet”! Then Luke says, “He JUMPED up and walked”! Don’t know about you, but just the sight of this…I’d have to say, ‘Hallelujah’! ‘Hallelujah’! And so I ask, “Was Timothy shouting ‘hallelujah’?"

So they story continues with the town folk wanting to worship Paul and Barnabas as god’s. The crowds even bring a sacrifice in their behalf. But Paul and Barnabas refuse this praise saying that, “We are but men, the same nature as you”. And so…yeah, you know my question… "Was Timothy witnessing this as well?"

Paul, left as dead in Lystra
Well the crowds, you know crowds…they turn on Paul. They could have simply rushed Paul and his associates out of town, but no, that would be to kind, to easy. No, the crowds in turn begin to stone Paul; they stone him to the extent that it appears that Paul is dead. And once again, "Was Timothy watching this behold before his very eyes?" To be presumed or appear to be dead…this had to be an awful beating, an awful sight to have seen. And Timothy, he may have been the age that I was when the semi plowed into that pickup. It’s not a sight you soon forget. No, it’s a sight you NEVER forget. The impact (no pun intended) changes you, who you are, where you go from that point forward.

In a similar vane as the tomb, or to the man who was the subject of this story, or as Paul Harvey would site, “Now for the rest of the story”. Acts fourteen twenty continues, “While the disciples stood around him, he arose and entered the city.” Now, wait a second! Paul…appeared…to be…dead! He was dead! Luke doesn’t provide sufficient time to even begin to grieve in the story. Were there minutes, maybe even an hour before Paul arose? Or perhaps, he just arose. But if it was the prior, I could see Luke being so excited of what just transpired that his pen could not delay ... And so, Luke was shouting, ‘Hallelujah’! Hallelujah indeed!

If Timothy was at this scene, had he walked away after the beating? Was he distressed that this man who had given someone from his own town, a man who had never walked, a new lease on life? Did he hear from others what took place after he walked away with his heart deeply grieved? Or perhaps he saw with his own eyes Paul standing up from this death defying experience? Either way, I must ask, “How was Timothy changed from these amazing events”? Timothy would never, no never forget this moment.

So, five years later … “There was a certain disciple”. Timothy…had become…a follower of not Paul, rather the one for whom Paul taught, He in whom the tomb was left empty.

I believe that it is very possible that Timothy was a witness to the events that day in Lystra nearly two thousand years ago, an event that forever changed how he lived. Sure he was raised in a ‘God-fearing’ home, but as we all too often have seen, that is not enough. Timothy experienced something that made him a disciple.

You and I … we may never have this kind of experience, but the same One who left the tomb empty … the same One who empowered Paul the ability to give this man a new ‘walk’ on life (pun intended!), is the One who can change you forever.







From this blog my hope is to continue to pursue that direction that Timothy took. I want to follow his steps and the instruction that Paul would give while writing two letters to one he called ‘son’. How many blogs and how often will the life of Timothy find their way into this blog? Don’t know! I just know that I get excited when I think about what Timothy, a young man, a boy, might have experienced that day and how that experience forever CHANGED the entire course of his life.

Monday, April 1, 2019

Firefighter, 'Public Safety Officer' - When Tax-Free ... Might Not Be...

No ‘April Fools’ here, I read that the 2014 Tax Code had 73,954 pages. Apparently, our CPA hasn’t read them all. Just saying 😊

So, if there wasn’t enough craziness to prove once again why I made an edit to one of my key ‘life mantra’s’, our ‘not-so-friend’ IRS, has provided one more. First my mantra was: “Simplicity, Flexibility and Availability”. That mantra later was changed to: “Simplicity (complexity happens), Flexibility and Availability”. Maybe it’s ‘too’ obvious to not expect that ‘IRS’ and ‘Complexity’ are often synonyms.

'Taxable Amount' ... same as 'Gross Distribution'
The year 2019 is the fourth year that we’ve utilized part of the 2006 ‘Pension Protection Act’, that is particular to “Public Safety Officers”.  (See page 18 of the 'Summary of the Pension Protection Act of 2006' and 'Distributions to Public Safety Officers). Those included within this cadre are, “Law enforcement officer, firefighter, chaplain, or a member of a rescue squad or ambulance crew”.

The PPA allows a member to draw up to $3,000 from an eligible retirement plan and to be used toward medical expenses “tax free”. For myself I use our 457. For the years 2016 and 2017 I made distributions for both the PPA and for additional expenses. But in 2018 we I only made a draw for the $3,000 PSO distribution. So you can imagine my surprise when I looked at our 1099-R from our financial institution for all three years, and see that line 1 ‘Gross Distribution’ and line 2a ‘Taxable Amount’ are identical. So the initial obvious thought was that our 1099-R was completed incorrectly by the company. Oh no, that would be to easy. No, in fact this is the method in which the IRS has set this up.

How do I know this? I’m glad you asked. Go to the ‘Instructions for Forms 1099-R’ and scroll down to ‘Box 2a Taxable Amount’. There you find that the 1099-R is NOT to reduce the ‘$3,000 exclusion’. Common sense says, “This would be a great place to reduce an amount that you’re not going to be required to pay taxes on. For it says, “Taxable Amount”, but no, again this would be to easy.”

So Rick, what’s the BOTTOM LINE? When you make a draw from your financial institution, they do not withhold taxes. But, when you receive your 1099-R the $3,000 IS included in both your ‘Gross distribution’ and ‘Taxable amount’. So…in order to not pay taxes YOU MUST reduce the ‘Taxable amount’ somewhere. And our friend the IRS has decided that in 2017 and prior that you would make this distinction on Line 16 of Form 1040, ‘Pensions and annuities’. In 2018 the line is changed to ‘4’ and called, ‘IRA’s, pensions, and annuities’. As stated in Publication 575, not to be mistaken with Publication 757 (how to pass a kidney stone tax-free), page 6 says, “reduce the amount ($3,000) on Form 1040, line 4b”. Then you add, “PSO” adjacent and walla, you’re done.

Seriously, how difficult was that? Honestly, I’m pretty sure that the IRS has been smoking something funny for much longer than it has been allowed in Oregon. Totally dude!

Reduce '4a' by $3,000 place into '4b' and write 'PSO' to the left
 Anyway, it’s just possible that your CPA is not aware of the above information. Please let them (and our fellow PSO's) know, make your appropriate amendments, save some taxes and … have yourself a skinny salted caramel latte without cream.  
Thank you, 'Dan Mitchell' *



Friday, March 22, 2019

Smell of The Mitt

The 'Dodger' 1970-72
To most, seeing someone with their face stuck into one’s baseball mitt would just be down right silly. But, for a twelve-year-old boy, the smell from the leather of the glove and that of the ball, well, it was just heavenly. Add to these the warmth of the California sunshine, the brilliant blue sky and diving into the lush green grass, nothing, no nothing else came close to perfection in this boy’s mind.

The 'Hall of Famer'
It was 1970, beginning what was my third year of playing baseball, my first as a Dodger. Seriously, Los Angeles, baseball, Dodger…perhaps you can’t imagine the thrill that this twelve-year-old was experiencing. Though both the great Sandy Koufax and Don Drysdale had just recently retired, still there was Hall of Famer Don Sutton on the mound, Wes Parker at first base (Steve Garvey, soon to be the starter), or my favorite, Willie Davis in centerfield. It was a time that, well, I knew baseball like the back of my hand. No, better than the back of my hand.

 I would go on to play more than 200 hundred games during those childhood and youth years. I would have even missed meals just to get into a game. I imagine that there were times when I questioned where he was, but typically, just playing was worth him not showing up. To my dad’s credit, other than my ‘Babe Dahlgren’ story, which I shared in a post called, ‘Baseball and the Babe’, that Spring afternoon game at Dodger Stadium stands out as the greatest.

The Dodgers had just returned from Vero Beach, where they played their preseason games. They had one more game before the season began. It was against our own College hero’s, the USC Trojans. Both teams had three championships over the past decade, and the future looked bright.

'Man Wall' with Baseball Memoirs
Seriously, the only part of the game that I recall, was when the Dodgers took the field for warmups. The infielders were warming up in make-believe style. That is, they didn’t have a ball. They pretended to throw the ball on the ground and in the air, making great throws and leaps in order to keep the ball in play.
My 'Dodger' Team

On this particular afternoon … an amazing beautiful day, at Dodger Stadium, playing the Trojans, with my dad sitting next to me. Memories.....they just don’t get much better.






Fathers...you, we have a great opportunity to make lasting impressions upon our sons. My encouragement, make this your life's goal. Paul says, "Fathers, bring your children up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." Ephesians 6:4

Friday, March 8, 2019

It’s Just A SIM Card …

It always seemed like it was ‘just a matter of time’ before my journey would return me to San Luis Rio Colorado. Over the past four years that reality has been more than an itch, it has become a determination. And that determination came to fruition in February of 2019

After two deployments with Team Rubicon in Southern California, I continued south through the border at Algodones and then the short distance onward to San Luis.

In preparation for this trip I had decided on three primary goals. One, for it to be a trip of Spanish immersion. Two, to bring baseball equipment, coaching baseball clinics. And three, well three is whatever or however the Lord might direct.

Angel & Luis - an hour before my departure
So why San Luis? For five years between 1998 and 2002 I had the privilege to join and co-lead teams, mainly composed of youth, to this city about the size of Salem, Oregon. During those years we were able to accomplish many projects including VBS, and building a church, named Betania, as well as a few homes. Typically we would arrive on Sunday afternoon, with our building supplies not far behind. Though in the year 2000, we never saw them until Tuesday afternoon. So, the obvious question was, what do we do now?

With the Vega Family - 2002
A key goal for Jon and I during those years was ‘relationships’. It would be one thing to build a home, but without building relationships in the process, well, would we not be missing the point. One such relationship was with the Vega family. Heriberto, Gudelia and their six beautiful children had already a special place in my heart. So, it was natural to ask Heriberto if there was anything that needed repair or that we could assist with on their home. His reply, priceless! “No necesito nada, yo tengo mi salud, mi familia y Jesuscristo es mi salvador”. That is, “I don’t need anything, I have my health, my family and Jesus Christ is my savior”.
Heriberto & Gudelia y Nietos

The following two mornings, with our supplies still delayed, I would ask Heriberto the same question and he would give the same response. Finally, late Tuesday morning I decided to attempt one more time. This time he relented. Melody, one of our youth, and I went over in his Ford Bronco. What happened next has never left my memory. Might I just say that I was glad that I was wearing dark sunglasses as his quote echoed in my head. His simple and humble life overwhelmed me. Right then I mentioned that I would love to build him a house one day. To which he repeated, “No necesito nada, yo tengo mi salud, mi familia y jesuscristo es mi Salvador”. In March of 2002 we were able to fulfill that commitment.

Moving the story forward to February 2nd, 2019, I went to the most logical location in which I assumed might be just the place to set up my tent. You see, I had the baseball gear, I had my own clothing, I even brought some food for just in case. But, where I might actually stay, and what, exactly might I be doing, these things I did not know.

Sister Ylda Praying For a Worker
Before my arrival to Betania I decided that I better replace my SIM Card with my Mexico card and charge it with minutes at an Oxxo (the main ‘7-Eleven’ store of Mexico). There was but one small problem. I could not get the SIM Card out of the phone. After nearly an hour, three stores in an attempt to find even a paperclip, finally a cashier asked if an earring might work. “Absolutely, I said!”. With the card exchanged and the phone charged I continued the few blocks to the Betania/Bethany church.

Now nearing dusk and no one at Betania, I decided to drive past Templo Berea. How this church even becomes part of the equation is quite providential. You see almost four years to the day I concluded a three month stay in Jalisco Mexico with my last night in San Luis. Through a series of events I was able to find my sister-in-the-Lord, Ylda, pastora of Betania. That late afternoon in February 2015, we drove to a couple of the comedor’s (food kitchen’s) that she had set up. And finally to Templo Berea, where I would enjoy a brief visit with the Vega’s outside of the church before they went in for the evening service.

Now one picture you must set in your mind before I continue is that most of the homes and churches in this area are guarded by fence and locks. Betania had such and Templo Berea the same. As I arrived a man and women had just stepped out of their house adjacent to the church. Now recall, that I would have driven past about an hour prior if I had been able to exchange the SIM cards. And with the fence, well, it's unlikely that I would have even stopped.
Chuy, Andrea, Lupe & Family
I stepped out of my Nissan pickup and walked up to the fence saying, “Hola, me llamo Ricardo Williams yo soy un amigo de Heriberto y Gudelia Vega”. That is, hello my name is Rick Williams, I am a friend of the Vega’s. Before I could say anything further, the wife (Andrea) motioned to her husband (Lupe) and said something. Being more than thirty feet away I could not hear what she had said. Andrea then continue to her van and was off to run an errand and Lupe escorted me to a lovely studio apartment, with a full bathroom, on the second story of the church.
Baseball Clinic #1

What had just happened? How had I gone from most likely setting up camp in my tent to sleeping in a ‘castle’. Well, as providence would have it, Andrea is the baby sister of Gudelia. She had heard the story of this gringo who built a house for her sister over a decade and a half ago. And she even seen my picture many times. You see, in the living room of the Vega’s home are placed six pictures. Five of their family and one of yours truly in front of their newly built home in 2002 with the entire Vega family.

Orfanato with Abraham & Alan
Sobrina Rita, Miguelito & Players
Oh, and Templo Berea, just happens to be a block and half from the only baseball field in the area. Over the next two weeks I would have the privilege to have some Spanish immersion, enjoy six baseball clinics, come to build a new and lasting friendship with many, most notably Lupe, Andrea and Chuy and that “whatever or however the Lord might direct”, well, it was changed to “Por amor de Cristo”. That is, “For the sake of Christ” in our English bible. Found in Philippians 3:7 where Paul says, “I count all things to be loss for the sake of Christ”.

Bethel Orfanato
And if you need more evidence of our Creator’s providence, perhaps being in San Luis exactly at the time that they had planned to visit and assist one of the local orphanages. Or perhaps the discovery of the ‘Algodoneros’ baseball caps. Having searched three different times at multiple stores and coming up empty handed, I went out one last time. While nearing downtown, I could see in the distance the light poles of their stadium. As I approached there was one remaining player, who had just placed his gear into his truck, and was about to head home. Speaking in Spanish I asked if he might perhaps know where I could find baseball hats for the local team. In perfect English he says, “We can talk in English if you’d like”. And, “Yes, I know exactly where you might purchase them”.
All With Algodoneros Hats & Evelyn With Her New Uniform

So, a trip, in planning for more than three years had just been concluded. The lessons learned, much more than what one blog can hold. Suffice it to say, travel slowly, listen deeply and wait for much more than one can even imagine.




Ephesians 3:20-21 - Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen.

The song was one that I heard while waiting the three hours in line to enter back into the United States of America. 'Gracefully Broken' sung by Matt Redman and Tasha Cobbs Leonard. Powerful!

Monday, October 15, 2018

Orange Nesbitt's ~ Just Another Round ~


When I say two words … ‘Great memories’ … what comes to mind? And if I were to add one particular factor, that is your earliest childhood memory, what would it be? Perhaps as interesting is what is the trigger that ranks this as one of those great memories? For me, it's all about Orange Nesbitt’s.

Many were the visits to the southwest corner of my father’s home state of Iowa, most to good ole Red Oak, but this memory … it takes place in the spot on the road called ‘Hastings'. I challenge you to find it on the map. 

Although I easily recall the two or three trips to Iowa aboard my grandfather's semi, at least one flight, one via car and perhaps even one via train. Whether it was one of these or another, I have not a clue to how I arrived in Hasting on this visit.


If my memory serves me right I stayed with my uncle Jimmy for perhaps three or four nights. It was circa the summer of 1966, with baseball and Sandy Koufax becoming an integral part of this lads life. Shortly after arriving Jimmy took me around the town so I could be familiar with all six or seven streets. Then we walked up to the town center to the store, the post office and the pool hall … oh, of course these were all one and the same. He introduced me to the man behind the counter of the store, no not Oz … most likely the owner. And he told him that he could add whatever his nephew Ricky purchased onto his tab.
Jimmy 1958

The following days were filled with new buddies, a new game called billiards and a childhood favorite Orange Nesbitt’s. On my last visit to downtown Hastings, accompanied by Jimmy, he asked the man behind the counter what the amount was on his nephew's tab. Now remember a soda in the mid sixties was but a mere 10 cents and a candy bar even less at 5 cents. I would imagine that Jimmy was likely expecting that I might have had two, maybe three soda pop's per day and perhaps the same amount of candy bars and hence a tab somewhere between one to two dollars would be reasonable. What my uncle's initial response was, I don't know, but looking back I now realize that the ten dollar plus tab must have been quite the surprise. 

Jimmy 2010
Apparently somewhere I had heard the phrase, “Give them another round on me”. I'm thinking that I made some new found buddies quite happy, at least for a couple days during that summer of 66'. The man behind the counter, well he was making a little extra on Jimmy and I'm sure smiling all the way to the proverbial bank. And uncle Jimmy, he just grinned, paid his nephew Ricky's tab and learned not to be fooled by the savviness of an eight year old boy. 



 There will likely be some in my family whose remembrance of Jimmy is much less favorable. And I totally understand. You see, my uncle Jimmy would become, or was likely even then, an alcoholic. Many lives were hurt in his wake. I know that my own father tried to assist a couple times with jobs, that in turn he would once again lose because of the bottle. 

September of 2010 brought two big surprises in my life. One, the sudden death of my father. Two, while notifying family and friends of his death, to discover that uncle Jimmy, whom I presumed dead since the 90's, was actually alive. Later that month I would call and talk to Jimmy.  Living with his wife in a shelter, Jimmy told me that he had recently received his twenty year sobriety pin. Shame and many burnt bridges had kept him from reconnecting with family. We enjoyed a couple laughs, including the mention of that brief visit and his nephew having quite the affinity for Orange Nesbitt's.

Jimmy died the summer of 2017. I imagine that he was sober until the end. For me, he is often remembered when drinking an orange soda, if only it could be a Nesbitt’s 😃